Support the -Wassign-enum compiler flag.

Fixes up the code to avoid some issues with isEqual: methods.

Opened https://github.com/google/protobuf/issues/1616 to track the KVC
collision.

Working on https://github.com/google/protobuf/issues/1599, specifically:
- Turn on more warnings that the Xcode UI calls out with individual controls.
- Manually add:
  -Wundef
  -Wswitch-enum
- Manually add and then diable in the unittests because of XCTest's headers:
  -Wreserved-id-macro
  -Wdocumentation-unknown-command
- Manually add -Wdirect-ivar-access, but disable it for the unittests and in
  the library code (via #pragmas to suppress it). This is done so proto users
  can enable the warning.

Fixes https://github.com/google/protobuf/issues/1189

- Style fixups in the code.
- map<> serialization fixes and more tests.
- Autocreation of map<> fields (to match repeated fields).
- @@protoc_insertion_point(global_scope|imports).
- Fixup proto2 syntax extension support.
- Move all startup code to +initialize so it happen on class usage and not app startup.
- Have generated headers use forward declarations and move imports into generated code, reduces what is need at compile time to speed up compiled and avoid pointless rippling of rebuilds.