dnn(eltwise): fix handling of different number of channels

* dnn(test): reproducer for Eltwise layer issue from PR16063

* dnn(eltwise): rework support for inputs with different channels

* dnn(eltwise): get rid of finalize(), variableChannels

* dnn(eltwise): update input sorting by number of channels

- do not swap inputs if number of channels are same after truncation

* dnn(test): skip "shortcut" with batch size 2 on MYRIAD targets