CMake status report: list unsatisfied dependencies for automatically disabled modules; fixed few problems with Windows-style paths

- missing install_name_tool on OS X
- incorrectly working try_compile() command

Better variant of OpenCVConfig.cmake generation; several smaller changes in the options section and Android build scripts

 [~] Automatically tracked dependencies between modules
 [+] Support for optional module dependencies
 [+] Options to choose modules to build
 [~] Removed hardcoded modules lists from OpenCVConfig.cmake, opencv.pc and OpenCV.mk
 [+] Added COMPONENTS support for FIND_PACKAGE(OpenCV)
 [~] haartraining and traincascade are moved outside of modules folder since they aren't the modules

Started top-level CMakeLists.txt file reorganization: cmake scripts are moved to separate folder; refactored BUILD_*, INSTALL_*, ENABLE_*, USE_*, WITH_* options.

Fixed small problem in chart.py.

Android cmake toolchain: changed some error messages, fixed error with NDK r5, improved includes and link directories configuration