from MSVS2017 and GCC8 -O1 mode

- exception safe smart pointers, fixed many memory leaks
- fixed errors handling
- fixed strings handling
- fixed file existence check
- fixed toFraction() implementation
- add 'drop=true' for v4l2 input
- avoid overriding custom pipelines sink's 'max-buffers' value
- updated valgrind supression rules
- added support for GStreamer native leaks tracking (via gst_deinit() call)
- repaired capturing through GStreamer0.10 (fixed CV_8UC1)

causes leaks if FFmpeg is disabled through OPENCV_VIDEOIO_PRIORITY_FFMPEG=0

Test request by #14583 (#14800)

* add test to show the undistort bug

* move test to calib3d

* Remove Inference Engine 2018R3 and 2018R4

* Fix 2018R5

libvpx: 1.8.0

Fix for MSVS2019 build warnings (#14743)

* AVX512 arch support for MSVS

* Fix for MSVS2019 build warnings: updated integral() AVX512 implementation

* Fix for MSVS2019 build warnings: reworked v_rotate_right AVX512 implementation

* fix indentation

backporting of commit: d3d13c41

backporting of commit: f6230ae0

3rdparty: update OpenEXR 2.3.0 (#14725)

* openexr 2.2.1

* openexr 2.3.0

* openexr: build fixes

* openexr: build dwa tables on-demand