Conflicts:
	modules/core/include/opencv2/core/cuda.hpp
	modules/cudacodec/src/thread.cpp
	modules/cudacodec/src/thread.hpp
	modules/superres/perf/perf_superres.cpp
	modules/superres/src/btv_l1_cuda.cpp
	modules/superres/src/optical_flow.cpp
	modules/videostab/src/global_motion.cpp
	modules/videostab/src/inpainting.cpp
	samples/cpp/stitching_detailed.cpp
	samples/cpp/videostab.cpp
	samples/gpu/stereo_multi.cpp

This and several following commits contain the "boring" changes required
to support the new Ptr. These are changes like:

* new T -> makePtr<T> or .reset(new T) or Ptr<T>(new T)
  (depending on the situation)
* p.empty() -> !p
* delete_obj -> DefaultDeleter::operator()

and similar changes that are numerous, but primitive.

This also fixes few clang build errors

a big patch; use special proxy types (Input/OutputArray, Input/OutputArrayOfArrays) for passing in vectors, matrices etc.

replaced alloca() (a.k.a. cvStackAlloc) with AutoBuffer or vector() everywhere. cvStackAlloc() is still defined, but we do not need alloca() anymore to compile and run OpenCV (fixes #889 and may be some others)

added Mat::push_back, pop_back and related operations; enabled reading/writing/creating/copying matrices with zero dimensions.