Fix a bug in cv :: merge when array of 3-channel mat is input (#13544)

* Mat merge function bug fix - Bug fix of merge function of 3-channel vector <Mat> of 3 or 4 matrices

* Add Core_merge test for opencv#13544

* fixups

Check for "gutter" around displayed image. there was one row/column missing on the bottom/right.
Might as well set gutter = 0?

* Fix drawMatches and drawKeypoints for BGRA input images

* keep BGRA too

* Combine different input types for drawMatches test

Added filter2d tests for 16S

Commit: 124011c3
PR: https://github.com/opencv/opencv/pull/13392

Sobel filter with 16S/16U datatype is broken.

OpenCV 3.4.5

backport 4ba4901c

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