The header is gone now, along with the opencv_legacy module.

samples: gpu: removed inclusion of non-existent opencv2/contrib/contrib.hpp header, re-introduced TickMeter class in a separate header

This patch removes inclusion of opencv2/contrib/contrib.hpp header,
which does not exist anymore due to removal of opencv_contrib module.

The samples including this header appear to be doing so in order to
use TickMeter class; therefore, the latter is now provided by tick_meter.hpp
header file, located in samples/gpu folder.

The example in question cannot be compiled anymore as the softcascade
module has been removed in 3858f229.

fixed dependency of stitching module on xfeatures2d module as optional
fixed the initModule_xfeatures2d function that was called in module stitching since it is in another namespace than the standard cv one.