replaced alloca() (a.k.a. cvStackAlloc) with AutoBuffer or vector() everywhere. cvStackAlloc() is still defined, but we do not need alloca() anymore to compile and run OpenCV (fixes #889 and may be some others)

updated 3rd party libs: CLapack 3.1.1.1 => 3.2.1, zlib 1.2.3 => 1.2.5, libpng 1.2.x => 1.4.3, libtiff 3.7.x => 3.9.4. fixed many 64-bit related VS2010 warnings