Revert "After speaking with Ben Gray and the discussion on the mailing list, this is an attempt to create a sockopt to allow connecting pipes to not immediately be available for traffic. The problem is in a PUSH to many PULL situation, where there is a connect to a PULL which is not there. This connect will immediately create a pipe (unlike bind), and traffic will be load balanced to that pipe. This means if there is a persistently unavailable end point then the traffic will queue until HWM is hit, and older messages will be lost."

This reverts commit fe3fb419.