Remove a reference to Main, add a comment about the legality of acceptFromThirdParty, and fix a few typos and one pervasive grammatical error.

The idea behind the directory organization was that we might have official implementations for other languages in other top-level directories, as siblings to the c++ directory. It seems implausible that we'd use CMake as a meta-build-system over all of these.

Another reason for this change is that the release tarball actually contains only the c++ subdirectory. We probably want to include cmake files in the release.

Add an easier way to read a message directly into a builder. Requires a copy for security/validation.

This is not currently used, but eventually we'll use this to support efficient inter-thread messaging.

That said, I've decided that inter-thread messaging is complicated and I don't want to work on it right now.

CMake support for MSVC/Visual Studio

fix some typos

Wait for writeable, rather than readable, socket on connect.