Fix bug where EzRpcClient would segfault if the target host resolved to multiple addresses and the connection to the first of those failed.

The 'objectId' field is now deprecated. Long-term, each vat will export no more than one "bootstrap interface" which can be obtained via 'Bootstrap'. Restoring SturdyRefs will be accomplished through higher-level interfaces specific to the VatNetwork in use.

See comments for 'Bootstrap' in rpc.capnp for more discussion.

Add a defaulted ReaderOptions argument to the constructors for
EzRpcServer and EzRpcClient to allow large/deep message uses more
easily.

For portions currently copyright by Kenton (most of it), transfer copyright to Sandstorm Development Group, Inc. (Kenton's company).

The license change is practically meaningless, as MIT and BSD 2-clause are legally equivalent. However, the BSD 2-clause license is sometimes confused for its ugly siblings, BSD 3-clause and BSD 4-clause. The MIT license is more immediately recognizeable for what it is.

Rémy Blank and Jason Choy (the two non-trivial contributors) are on record as approving this change:

https://groups.google.com/d/msg/capnproto/xXDd2HUOCcc/gbe_COIuXKYJ

Cleaner disconnect handling.  Better fix for issue #71, and also simplifies the interface and improves robustness.

Make all Promise methods consistently consume the promise (returning a new promise when it makes sense), rename daemonize -> detach, and make eagerlyEvaluate() require an error handler (this caught several places where I forgot to use one).

Split AsyncIoProvider into high-level and low-level interfaces, so that alternate EventPort implementations can implement the low-level interface and reuse the higher-level stuff.