Closes #479.

If T is a template instantiation and `List<T, kind<T>()>` is the return or
parameter type of a function (notably get, set, init, adopt, and disown
functions) defined out-of-line from its definition, MSVC fails to match
the definition with its declaration. This seems to be another consequence
of poor expression SFINAE / constexpr support.

An easy workaround is to avoid using kind<T>() and instead manually
instantiate Kind_<T>, as in lite mode. When I converted Kind_<T> to use
VoidSfinae, I had thought this solved the problem, but clearly there are
still edge cases.

This work-around had been removed in 75c7aaee.

However, it turns out that many Debian Jessie systems still use 4.9.2 (not 4.9.4, which is fixed).

I've changed the #if to more specifically target 4.9.x, which should cover all affected versions (in addition to some fixed versions).

This uncovered some bugs and revealed that there was no way to read the Content-Length of a HEAD response. Fixed.

Although contrary to conventions, it's surprisingly easy to write code that calls connect() and then drops the address before the connection completes, and such code works with the default network implementation, so let's accept it.

Add KJ utility functions to encode/decode blobs in common formats.

- Rename UtfResult -> EncodingResult
- Make it usable like a Maybe, so that we don't need separate "try" functions.
- Check errors in hex decoding and URI decoding.

In particular: UTF-{8,16,32}, Hex, URI encoding, and Base64

This conversion would end up including the NUL terminator in the array, which is almost never what you want.

We can perhaps re-enable this in the future and have it automatically remove the NUL terminator, but we should do at least one release with it disabled to catch anyone who might be affected by the change in behavior.

People see files named "md5" and get worried about security issues, even though we're using it only as a *non-cryptographic* PRNG. So, I renamed the files to type-id.*, encapsulated the code better to make clear that it's only used to generate type IDs, and added comments clarifying that we're not expecting it to be collision-proof.

Fixes #482.

Using the `Provide` message's question ID to identify the provision doesn't work because the question ID could be freed up and re-assigned before the recipient tries to receive the provision.

We'll need to update the configure script to check for OpenSSL and conditionally build this. Ekam users will need to add -DKJ_HAS_OPENSSL to their CXXFLAGS if they've arranged to link against the correct libs.

Remove references to obsolete isCallersFault

Misspelt macro name in undef

It looks like it's pretty normal for browsers to do this.

The entity-body would never be marked "done", breaking the pipeline for subsequent requests/responses.

(In practice `Content-Length: 0` is rare since normally only GET requests don't have content and they don't pass `Content-Length` at all.)

At some point isCallersFault was marked as obsolete, but the description
of abort still referenced it, suggesting particular usage. This patch
removes said references.

Since `git-diff` does *such* a good job with prose: This just removes
the two parentheticals and re-flows the paragraph.