This allows functions which use KJ_EXPECT and other test macros to be built without linking libkj-test, which pulls in a possibly-unwanted main() function.

In particular, afl-testcase.c++ could not link in -fno-exceptions mode without this change.

Disallow MSVC from building the parsing code by default because the latest
stable MSVC (VS2015 Update 3) ICEs when trying to compile the `anyOfChars`
combinator.

Note that VS2015 Update 2 and VS2017 can compile the parsing code, with a
little help. To experiment with this, you can override the default
behavior with -DCAPNP_BUILD_TOOLS=ON.

Rename async-io.c++ to async-io-unix.c++, in preparation for factoring out common bits from async-io-win32.c++.

Add missing include when building on Linux

Discovered trying to build on Android using CMake.  UIO_MAXIOV is only
exported by the linux/uio.h header which was never included.  Not sure
how normal Linux builds work.

Add missing reinterpret cast from const void* to const byte*.

Remove -pthread compile flag when building under Android.  ANDROID cmake
variable exported by android-cmake project.

This allows to consumers to use the same targets regardless
whether capnproto CMakeList.txt is added as subdirectory
or whether capnproto is found as package

Consumers of non-installed build directory don't have to manually
set include dirs.

This fixes the lib vs lib64 vs lib32 issue when installing

Other problem with cached BIN_INSTALL_DIR, LIB_INSTALL_DIR, etc options
is that changing official CMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX variable has no effect.

This makes it a lot easier for CMake based projects to use Cap'n Proto.

Example usage:

find_package(CapnProto)
capnp_generate_cpp(FOO_SRCS FOO_HDRS foo.capnp)
add_executable(foo main.cpp ${FOO_SRCS})
target_link_libraries(foo CapnProto::capnp CapnProto::capnp-rpc)

This is a lot better than the previous variable based solution since
linking to nonexistent targets is an error whereas an empty variable
expansion (e.g. due to typos) will be silently ignored. It also makes
sure that the right compiler flags, include directories, defines and
link libraries are passed to the compiler for that target without
needing any other include_directories(), etc.

A compatibility layer is provided to ease migration.

Thanks to Bryan Boreham <bjboreham@gmail.com> for much help getting this started.

With CAPNP_LITE=1, the command-line tools will not be built, and the
tests cannot be built without EXTERNAL_CAPNP=1 (BUILD_TESTING=0 needs to
be set if the tests are not desired).