make lib include bin into /home/zhujiashun/brpc/output & make all example be able to be compiled by default

add auth failed log.

tag with_auth in Socket::WriteRequest.

add ut.

fix redis port.

mv REDIS_AUTH_FLAG from Controller to Socket.

change MAX_PIPELINED_COUNT from 65536 to 32768.

support conditional flags on certain gcc and compile proto file using cmake, based on CMakefile from kevin-xu-158

we met some weird bug